Recipe for a good Relationship

Sunday, 10 January 2010 05:35 Last Updated on Sunday, 10 January 2010 16:23 Written by morriskl

The most important ingredient for a relationship is trust. Relationship can be subdivided. One is interpersonal relationship and other one you can say is intimate relationship. Intimate relationship is a relationship in which partners have physical and emotional intimacy. Intimate relationship consists of two people, who are attracted to each other, like, love and provide emotional and personal support to each other. Love is an important factor in physical and emotional intimate relationship. People who are in intimate relationship are known as couple.

The base of every relationship is trust. And trust comes from truth. If are true to your partner then only your partner can trust you. Without the development of trust, respect will never be born. A good relationship today is not one that just lasts but one that coexists with self-respect, individuality and the need to grow. Both the persons should be totally committed in a relationship. They must take responsibility for themselves as well as their relationship.

In a relationship, try to keep the following points in mind, given that you thrive to make your relationship a success. However, it must always be remembered that there are no hard and fast rules to achieve it.

Don’t try too hard to convince a person that you love her/him. Love and trust go hand in hand. If you love someone, it automatically implies that you trust that person, and it also goes the other way round.
When you are in a relationship don’t question about the other person’s love.
In a relationship, it is we and not me.
Feel the oneness of the universe. Step beyond the “me first” conflicts.
Always listen to each other. Communication strengthens the relationship. It helps you to know each other in a better way.
In case of a fight, first check where you went wrong rather than where the other person failed.
When you are in a relationship you get to know yourself as you analyze the cause of your reactions.
Take the first step in working out of a relationship without worrying about any one. Don’t depend on any one and don’t let the other person depend on you.
Don’t use relationship to fulfill your expectations.
If you are finding that nothing is working to make your relationship better, then you must remember that change is the only thing constant and nothing can be permanent forever.
Each relationship is unqiue. It will take what it takes to make it work.
Show your partner how much he or she means to you. Express what and how you feel for your partner. It will help you to strengthen your relationship.
When you are in a relationship you finally learn to say sorry. To error is human, and there is great virtue in all forgiveness.
It is a fact that our fears related to the probable outcomes of the present relationship are nothing but fears that developed from past relationship. Of course, it may not be repeated with this person.
Your truth is better for you than someone else's. So always say truth. As you know truth is baseline for a relation.