Tips to avoid sins of sex
Saturday, 06 February 2010 06:13 Last Updated on Sunday, 07 February 2010 21:49
Being in a relation is a very amazing feeling for those who know how to enjoy it and live to the fullest. And obviously both of you want to make sex a part of it. There will be plenty of advice available for you from every nook and corner. Foremost will be “protected sex”. It is important undoubtedly, yet there are many other things that you should consider while having sex. So, let’s get going and find out more about them.
Remember that safe sex will help in preventing infections as well as unwanted pregnancy. This will always be the first advice from everyone.
In cases where natural lubrication is not produced in ample quantity, the couples should not hesitate about using artificial ones. This will take care of reducing pain.
Avoid switching partners. Why follow the trend and invite troubles? Do it different, and stay different. This will ensure your safety from STDs.
A very important advice for women is to say a big no to video recordings of the sex session. Remember that it may be misused, if fall into wrong hands. And if you are not married to your mate, then it is absolutely necessary to remember this.
Saying “no” is very important if you are not comfortable with sex. This means that even if you have done it in past but you do not want to do it for whatsoever reasons, be straightforward and deny. If you do not do it at the right time, you will never be able to enjoy sex and there is no point doing something that you can’t enjoy. You may even end up regretting it.
When you enter sex life, ensure that you go for regular medical check up. If there is any infection or STD, it may be cured better in early stages. Otherwise too, it is a good practice to get yourself examined every once a while.
Now, during sex, understand that you both are humans. Other than pleasure you seek, it is important that you take care about your partner in a better way. This means that if something is hurting, stop doing it right there! If you don’t stop, your partner will not be comfortable with sex when you ask for a next time, and who knows, the next time reply changes to a big “no”!
When you know that you are getting excited and starts for foreplay, make sure you place every other thought in some rear end of your head and stop thinking about everything else but your partner and the act you are in. This will help you and your partner to ease up and make sex a great experience. There is plenty of time to worry about other things, so don’t ruin special moments.
Last, but not the least; tell your partner how much you love being with him/her. However, do not pretend things. It will be noticed if you do so. Showing love and care will help your partner in trusting you and opening up so that understanding can be built.
Add this page to your favorite Social Bookmarking websites
