Foreplay: the path that leads to ultimate pleasure

Wednesday, 10 February 2010 19:35 Last Updated on Wednesday, 10 February 2010 21:24 Written by morriskl

This word is commonly used whenever sex is the topic. Foreplay is the activities that are performed before sex which may be a result of many days. It is a very essential part of sex and hence, it can not be overlooked. So, what exactly falls into this category? Let us explore.

Tease Talk: whenever you are close to your partner, whisper things, dirty talks to her. Tell her how you want to feel her, kiss her, make love to her etc. This in itself will be a sex to her, given that she will be able to feel you already on her, making her rock and roll all the time. This will be a catalyst for making her want you more and more. If you feel like touching her, then do not touch her vagina or breast. You can focus on mouth, neck, wrist, lower back, thighs, ears etc and touch them gently and lightly.

So what, if you are in public: do not worry much about being in public. Of course you are not committing any crime if you have touched or kissed your partner. But make sure your partner is comfortable with this. There is no point of exciting your partner if it is not comfortable for him/her. Otherwise, you can try kissing, or rubbing her while having drinks or dancing.

Stripping: By all means, stripping is a very essential part of foreplay. It is not only for men, but also for ladies. The point here is not dancing around any pole in your room, but to remove your and your partner’s clothes slowly and sensuously. For men, the most important tip is to remove off the socks as first thing. Otherwise, the sight of naked man with socks on is a big-time turn off. Gradually remove your shirt and go one for rest of clothing. Remember to simultaneously unclothe your partner too in similar sequence. After this you can start kissing each other, touch, suck and nibble the breasts, neck inner thighs etc.

Oral Pleasure: This is not meant as a rule to be applied in any and every case as every lady is different. The body may respond differently in different cases. Yet you can start with gently rubbing her vagina to begin with. Use the tips of your fingers and spread the outer lips apart and back together again. Massage them lightly and switch between these. This will lead to the beginning of lubrication. Let her get deep into the sensation. Do not get vigorous and hard on her at first place. Take time. The moment she will be ready, her body will show signs. Like spreading of legs is one of such signs. When this happens, move towards the clitoris with circular motion. While you start slowly, you can grow vigorous after some time, if your partner wishes you to.

A little later, when you are sure that lubrication is enough, you can insert your finger (or two) into her vagina. Slowly play inside her and at the same time you can suck the clitoris. This will produce great sensation in her body. Ultimately this will lead to sex in a natural manner. So, you will not have to plan but instead go along with the moves.

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