Wednesday, 24 February 2010 10:10 Last Updated on Sunday, 28 February 2010 16:45 Written by morriskl

As a general assumption, men love to have sex at any time and any place. And women think that nothing can stop them from sex no matter what. This, as a matter of fact, is wrong. Fact is, that there are many sins that women may commit and which would turn men off ultimately. Try the following and see yourself if you have been one of those committing these sins.

 While having sex, if you are lying idle and enjoying the intercourse, kissing, nibbling and sucking, then let’s say you have performed very well to turn your man off. Here, the remedy is quite simple. Participate. Touch him, lick him, move your fingers through his hair etc. The catch is to get involved in love making.

 Women love kisses. This applies to men as well. Instead of concentrating only on the face and lips, try teasing him, kissing all over, playing etc. He will be crazy enough to give you more pleasure than what you can think.

 Flip the coin. It’s high time that women should understand that it’s not up to men to control lovemaking. Your desires must know how to come out. If you are making him to follow ‘your’ rules, then rest assured he will go crazy about you. Experiment with some sexy outfit and surprise him with your initiation to have sex.

 Hard breathing, moaning and screaming from pleasure, signs of wanting him more; all this will increase the tempo of sex. Remember, sex is not just inserting penis into vagina or say a ‘task’ lasting for a few minutes, it is beyond that. Try to keep your love making new. You can actually enjoy sex for hours. Include foreplay, sex talk, perfume, music, sexy outfit etc and try other places except your bed.

 Similarly, men should also avoid certain things while making love.

 

When you know that you are in good mood and ready to ride each other, then don’t be a spoil sport by asking stuff like, “Can I?” Our body gives sign when we want sexual pleasure. Read them. A look may be enough to tell your lady that you want to get her naked and make her go crazy. So, instead of asking questions, make a move.

 Sex and making love are different. If you know how to make your lady feel special and feminine, you are a winner. It should not always be sex, but a mixture of love making and sex. Innovation is a key to success. If your lady is comfortable enough, then don’t panic using kitchen, table, car etc as your next bed.

 Express your feelings in low, sensual whispers. Tell her what your next move will be. Kiss her neck gently and then slide to her ear. Kiss it and whisper soft nothings while exploring her vagina or breast. She will beg you for insertion.

 If you desire to see her wet or have sex with her in the bath tub while having shower, then share your fantasy. Do not make a jump start. Make it a gradual process. Ride along. While stripping her or kissing her, slowly involve her in your fantasy. She will never say no.