Wedding Night-Make love in different way

It is obvious that both bride and groom may be nervous on their wedding night, especially if they have never had sex before. It can be fun though, with a little patience and care. Let’s explore how it can be made a memory to be cherished forever.

While excitement takes over the better of you, try to be slow in your moves. Both of you may be tired of course, so it is better not to exert too much or put effort into it. Patience is the key. If you are able to make your partner feel comfortable, you will win the game.

Because of the day long activities, both of you may not be able to live those moments to the fullest, yet a little care can help you. Understand that it is not the time to expect. Just let yourself loose and start with soft touches and kisses. Both of you will get involved in sensual feeling in your body when you both will touch each other, feel each other’s body. It is important to feel the romance at that time.

You can also take few tips from experts like from books, internet, magazines etc.

The best way to kick start the night is light talks. Relax in each other’s arms, talk about anything light and general. Steal some seconds to kiss, hold, touch your partner. This can surely be the foreplay. Kiss can turn into smooch and then French kiss. Touching the body can turn into nibbling, whispers, licking etc. This will take things slowly to the next level rather than forcing yourself to a “technical” sex.

If you cannot enjoy foreplay, then this is not the time for sex in any manner. It means that you both must take some rest, relax for a good while and then make love. It may sound weird but truly it will make your first sex after wedding a memorable one.

You can also start with foreplay right from the wedding itself, like hugging each other, sharing kisses, looking into his/her eyes and flirting. This will ensure that the romance in you will keep you going.

Another good idea is to not make love to each other before the wedding. Give up sex for sometime before your wedding. This will give a new excitement and freshness to the moments you both will share while making love.

How about experimenting something new? Live your wildest dreams, wear something your partner always wanted you to, or something to excite the senses. Or you can try adding candles, fragrances, flower petals, shower, music etc anything you like and you feel can add to the romance.

The catch here is to make yourself as well as your partner comfortable and cozy so that you can over come the tiredness of wedding and enjoy the sex that follows. Sometimes things may go very easy than they would if you try too hard to make everything “technically” normal. Understand each other’s needs well and you wil end up having the best sex you ever had.