Wedding Night: Are you a Virgin?
Thursday, 11 March 2010 17:38 Last Updated on Saturday, 13 March 2010 23:53
Marriage marks the beginning of a new life. It starts from the very moment the rituals of marriage gets over. After that both partners feel excited and nervous about their first night and the love making. To add to this, if you are a virgin, you may be additionally worried about many things. These may be some reasons that may hamper the experience of your wedding night. So let us resolve some issues.
How to start a conversation about sex?
The answer is simple. Anytime you find yourself and your partner in a cozy and comfortable position, initiate light talk. It is better if this is done before the wedding. It is so because if you are afraid about anything, you can seek help from counselors. It can also be a part of pre-wedding counseling. You should discuss about everything that is vital for both of you. Ask your partner about hopes as well as fears and talk them out. This will ensure that both of you understand each other as well as sex at the time of your wedding night.
Will it be painful? Will she really bleed?
When a girl enters womanhood, that is, at the time of losing her virginity, she may or may not bleed. If she does, then it is very little. To consider pain, yes, it may be painful if her body is not ready for a penetration. This means that you should ensure her vagina is lubricated enough so that your penis can enter her vagina without much pain. If not, then you should use lubrication that is easily available in the market. Foreplay is a very good option to excite her and ease her body to accept sex.
What if erection is not maintained?
Simple and straight, switch to something else. Wedding is not about sex, it is about understanding each other. Love and care comes long before sex. If you are tired and can’t hold the erection, try to lighten things up by talking about other things, foreplay or anything that you find interesting.
How to have good sex?
Sex is sex is sex. There is no good or bad sex. It comes naturally to have sex that pleasures both you and your partner. Taking the things slowly can work wonders on your wedding nights. Explore each other’s body; load your foreplay with kisses, nibbling, hugging etc. Be gentle in the beginning and do not get aggressive, especially if it hurts your partner. Prepare your bodies well before penetration. The golden rule is that never think about doing it in an awesome way but on doing it the “right” way. If you both can enjoy being with each other, then pat yourself because you had a wonderful sex to remember for a lifetime.
With this, one more thing that is important as well as advisable is protection. Do not overlook the possibilities of unwanted pregnancy as well as STDs and HIV. Even if you both are married now, yet protection is necessary.
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