Thursday, 29 April 2010 19:54 Last Updated on Monday, 03 May 2010 15:42 Written by morriskl

Traditionally, dating activity includes meal or entertainment. Dating is not an easy job. It is because no one ever heard anyone saying that. People make hundreds or you can say thousands of mistakes or blunders on their first date. It is important to make your first date a perfect as chances of going for a date again will be less if your first date is a disaster. As you all know, first impression is the last impression. So, the first date should be a perfect one. Some of the strategies that will help you to have a perfect first date are as follows:

 

• For the first date, ask her out for a drink instead of a dinner. As four course dinners can be bit boring especially, if you are going for the first date. Take her to some coffee shop; it can make a lot happen.
• Always call her one day before and confirm that are you coming for the date tomorrow. It is a very polite thing to do. This will make her feel that you are already thinking about her.
• If you want to keep it as a surprise that where you are going on a date, at least give her some clue by just telling what she should wear on the date.
• If she is saying or telling you something, listen to it with full attention. Always listen to her. Once she is over with what she was talking, then respond. Don’t interrupt in between.
• Do compliment her about her looks. Don’t just sit thinking that she knows how pretty she is. Tell her, as she would love to hear it from you but don’t overdo that.
• Be original. Don’t ask stupid questions like “what kind of music you like”. Many guys may have asked the same question. Be original and stylish and talk something interesting.
• Give a nice tip as she will be definitely watching that.
• Reading body language is not that tough. If she touches your arm, it means she is interested in you and if she is not doing it and leaning away from you all the time, it is a red signal for shouting out aloud that she is not at all interested in you.
• Sometimes, small gestures can help you. Like when you drop her back home after the date, wait for some time outside till she gets inside the house. This will show that you are gentleman.
• Do ask her out when your date ends, this will show that you liked her company and you will love to go out with her again.
• After your date is over do call her and ask her did she enjoyed and when next they should go out again.
• Do not look at any other women when you are on a date. If you do so and she sees you doing that your chapter is closed for sure.
• Do not pretend to be some one else. It can ruin your date.