Finger her G-spot
Tuesday, 06 April 2010 18:34 Last Updated on Wednesday, 07 April 2010 17:32
Gräfenberg spot is known to be a woman’s most sensitive area. However, G-spot remains a mystery for those who can not find it. It does set an explosion in the entire body of a woman, if fingered correctly. And your lady will end up on her knees, wanting more from you. But, how to find it? What is the way to finger it? Let us find it out.
First of all, confirm that she is comfortable with it. And if she is not, then try to find out why. Unless it is some medical implication, comfortlessness may be a result of lack of trust. The stimulation of G-spot directly depends on how much she trusts you. Additionally, if you have never ever tried it, then this is the time you shall give it a try. Don’t worry if it is your first time, if you both understand each other well, you will end up having great time together.
To begin with, groom yourself properly. This includes washing your hands, trimming your nails and ensuring your hands are clean at the time you are about to stimulate her. If you do not take care of this, you may end up giving her burning sensation or infection that you would not want.
Foreplay is the key here if you want her to respond well. Kiss her, touch her, nibble her breasts, strip her, lick her ears, shoulder, neck, nipples etc. Devote extended time to foreplay. If there is enough sexual tension in her, she will be readily responsive to the touch on her G-spot. You can also start with oral sex. This will begin the stimulation of G-spot.
Now, make her wet. Ensure that there is enough lubrication so that you can place your finger(s) inside her vagina. Once she is wet, firmly move your middle or index or both fingers inside her vagina. However, avoid two fingers simultaneously if she has a tight opening. She may feel pain. Make sure you take care of her comfort and ease.
Once inside her vagina, slowly move your finger to locate a little swelled and slightly spongy/ridged area. If she is excited and aroused to the extreme, then her G-spot will be swelled.
Once you have found it, then you can flick it slowly, or circle it, press it, stroke it, tap it etc repeatedly. Switch between these moves. She will respond readily to the ones that turn her on. She will moan or cry softly to tell you that she is loving it. Pace it slowly and do not hurt her.
Do not forget that she will ejaculate. Also, it may make her feel uneasy too. This is because the sensation feels somewhat similar to the need to pee. So if signs are building that she may want to go, allow her. Tell her you will be waiting for her when she comes back. After she does, you may continue fingering her, if she wants you to, else you can make love to her to take her to a nice orgasm. If she loves it, she will ask for it again and again.
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